🔥 The People Shift 3-Minute Playbook
- Nigel Kilpatrick
- 2 days ago
- 2 min read

1. 🧠 Neuroscience Confirms: Empathy Enhances Executive Power
Empathy isn’t a distraction — it’s a cognitive upgrade. Neuroscience shows that empathetic leaders activate the prefrontal cortex, the brain’s command centre for decision-making, impulse control, and planning. In contrast, fear and stress activate the amygdala, leading to reactive, short-term thinking.
💡 Why it matters: If your culture is driven by pressure or fear, your people are neurologically less capable of solving complex problems.
🎯 Leadership Action: Start every week with a 10-minute “Temperature Check” session — not a performance update, but a space for emotional intelligence:
Ask: “What’s one thing that energised or drained you last week?”
Listen. Don’t fix.
Watch the room shift from guarded to grounded.
✅ Pro tip: You’re rewiring team brains from threat mode to trust mode — which unlocks higher cognitive function.
2. 🚀 Google’s Breakthrough: Psychological Safety Drives Innovation
Forget brainstorming gimmicks. Google’s Project Aristotle found that the single greatest predictor of high-performing teams was psychological safety — not IQ, not experience.
💡 Why it matters: In low-safety environments, team members withhold ideas, avoid feedback, and default to consensus — killing innovation silently.
🎯 Leadership Action: Introduce the “Red Card Rule”:
At any point in a meeting, anyone can raise a red card (real or virtual) to pause and challenge assumptions, share doubt, or suggest a riskier idea.
No judgement. No penalties.
Bonus: Rotate who chairs the meeting each week to flatten hierarchy.
✅ Pro tip: Psychological safety isn’t a value — it’s a system you design into how you work.
3. 💔 The Real Reason Your Best Talent Leaves? Disconnection
The top predictor of attrition isn’t pay, burnout, or promotion. It’s this:
“My manager doesn’t really see me.”
Compassion closes that gap. Not just caring — but intentional, visible recognition that makes people feel significant.
💡 Why it matters: When people feel invisible, they disengage. When they feel valued, they’ll move mountains.
🎯 Leadership Action: Implement a “Spotlight Slack” or email thread where anyone can name a teammate who demonstrated courage, kindness, or creativity that week.
Keep it specific. No generic praise.
Celebrate the story, not just the result.
You start it — but let the team run it.
✅ Pro tip: Recognition backed by story builds belonging, not just morale.
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