Imagine if this was written about you...'a note of thanks for helping me with my depression at work'
- Nigel Kilpatrick
- Jan 20, 2023
- 2 min read

As an employee, there are few things more important than feeling supported and understood by your manager and team leader. When personal issues outside of work are affecting your well-being, it can be a difficult and overwhelming experience. In these moments, having a compassionate manager and team leader can make all the difference.
As someone who is currently struggling with depression, I can attest to the fact that it can be incredibly difficult to focus on work when your mind is consumed by personal issues. You may feel like you're not performing at your best, and that your work is suffering as a result. But when your manager and team leader are compassionate, they understand that you're going through a difficult time, and they're willing to work with you to accommodate your needs.
For example, my manager has been incredibly understanding of my situation and has allowed me to work from home when I need to, take time off when I need to, and has been more flexible with my schedule. My team leader has been extremely supportive and understanding, they have been checking in on me regularly to see how I'm doing and if there is anything they can do to help. They haven't treated me any differently, they understand that my depression doesn't define me as a person, and they understand that I still have valuable contributions to make to the team.
This kind of understanding and support has been invaluable to me as I've been navigating my personal issues. It's allowed me to focus on my well-being while still being able to perform my job to the best of my ability. I know that my manager and team leader have my back and that they're willing to work with me to find solutions that work for everyone.
It's important to note that being a compassionate manager and team leader is not about being lenient or letting standards slip. It's about balancing the need to get work done with the understanding that we are all human, and that we all have personal issues that can impact our work. A compassionate manager and team leader understand that it's better to have an employee working well because they know their personal issues are being accommodated for, rather than an employee who is struggling and not performing at their best.
In conclusion, as an employee, it's vital to have a manager and team leader who are compassionate and understanding when personal issues outside of work are affecting your well-being. When your manager and team leader are compassionate, they understand that you're going through a difficult time, and they're willing to work with you to accommodate your needs. This kind of understanding and support can make all the difference in helping you navigate your personal issues while still being able to perform your job to the best of your ability. A compassionate manager and team leader understand the importance of balancing the need to get work done with the understanding that we are all human, and that we all have personal issues that can impact our work.
Thank you,
Nigel
Stay blessed and live your life with compassion
"PLJ", Peace, Love and Joy.
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